Not only has buttocks become less taboo, but it has almost become I bet, vanilla? Everyone does this: gay, straight, your mom and dad on your dad's birthday

Because many of us are interested in learning more about this, let's talk about the shit. Let's dip some simple things in our toes: buttocks!

What are they? Who used it? Who are they? Who wants them? What the fuck do you do with them?

Here are the answers to all of these questions, and more - whether your mom or dad is wearing a butt plug.

What is a butt plug?

Buttock plug is a sex toy used for anal sex. This is a very small object, usually a little sharp (but the tip is round), which can be inserted into the anus. The most common materials are:

Silicone

This is not your standard butt plug shape. In fact, it looks a bit like some of the vibrators we discussed earlier; you know, those vibrators that look like tongues? This is not short and strong, but long and thin. Depending on how you think about it, it can be a little scary, like a claw of death sticking into your ass hole, or a sexy toy tickling your inner happiness.

Glass

I'm afraid I'm biased against this because glass plugs are my favorite - not only because they feel great, but also because they're absolutely beautiful. Now, there are a lot of gorgeous whirlpools that I would like to include, but they are more suitable for butt packers who have time to adjust this form of game time. So, I started to pursue some basic +. Basic shape, no threat, unobtrusive, but not small in size, but medium. When you need something thicker.

Plastic

I know everyone hates plastic now, and it's considered evil, but it's not disposable, so it doesn't matter. But not recyclable. This is your very basic, beginner friendly docking plug. Small, cute, purple, made of comfortable materials, especially for novices. If I had to use a word to describe it, it would be Harmless. When you're not used to it, I think that's what you want.

jelly

I like this one because it's made of jelly, which, as far as I'm concerned, is a very suitable material for the hips. Especially if you're not very proficient in anal sex games, this may be a softgateway to something more difficult to access. From every point of view.

Better yet, it vibrates and is waterproof. Again, if you don't feel good playing the butt game, pushing the vibrator up may actually change the rules of the game. I firmly believe that there is nothing in the world that can not be solved with a good vibrator.

Stainless steel

If you think wood is hard core, prepare for the non destructible butt plug that transformer may use - stainless steel. Does anyone need a fucking stainless steel butt joint? Absolutely not. But if you want, this is your man. Why not be decadent - and it's fucking cold! – put yourself in your butt as a piece of metal?

In any case, the docking plug has different shapes and sizes, obviously to provide fun for the wearer, and we will discuss its use further. Be patient, everyone.

What Do You Do With Them? That Name Cannot Be Literal, Right?

I’m afraid so, Linda. You can literally plug your butt with this – and wear it, plug it in only to then pull it out, or play with it in and out to your heart’s content.

Butt plugs are also used for anal training. Yeah, kind of like an asshole workout prepping for the main event: anal sex. If you’ve never attempted anal penetration, that shit’s gonna hurt, so you need to work on it for a bit beforehand to stretch (yes, literally) the use of this exit to accommodate entrance. You can use your fingers for that, or a (series of) butt plug(s).

How To Use A Butt Plug

How Do I Prepare For This?

Go to the bathroom

There is no non-awkward to address this, so I’m going to have to just come out and say it: before you stick anything up your butt, make sure to take a shit. Make sure you’re running on empty. You don’t want any surprises. After that, you can move on to the next step.

Cleansing

If you’re thinking about going in through the backdoor, then there’s going to be some hygiene prep you’ll have to do. 

Training

If you choose the right size, you shouldn’t have problems with the butt plug fitting or being inserted without pain. However, it’s certainly a…special sensation that you haven’t felt before, so you’ll want to get used to it. You can try to prep your asshole by using your fingers for a bit. Start out with one finger, and then you can graduate to 2, or 3, or whatever you can handle. Keep in mind that the butt plug might still feel differently.

Lube

The most important lesson to learn here if you’ve never attempted ass play before, is that it’s a completely different game than vaginal penetration. You NEED lubricant.

Choose the right size/shape ?

Listen, you can’t just go online and pick a random butt plug; there’s gotta be some thought put into this. Not only in terms of material – which we discussed earlier – but also in terms of size. Your experience will vary vastly depending on how well you pick out your butt plug – especially your first one.

The average person will be comfortable with something around 0.75” to 1.25” – any larger may cause discomfort and may affect your enjoyment. You can also select several sizes in order to ease yourself into accepting and being comfortable with girthier objects down there. The easiest way is to get a pre-made training kit because it already contains the products selected for your needs.

Do it yourself/with a partner

Obviously, like any toy, butt plugs can be used on yourself, or on a partner (and by a partner). This is up to your preferences and intentions. If you’re a bit apprehensive and feel safer handing the hard work over to your partner, that’s certainly an option, as is being a control freak and doing it yourself, or just having a nice solo wank and playing explorer with your own butthole.

Depending on whether you’re alone or with a partner, you may need to switch positions for the easiest insertion. But we’ll address that in detail when explaining butt plug usage step by step. If you are allowing your partner to use the butt plug on you, make sure they know to go slowly and gently. There should be constant communication between the two of you and you should definitely signal when something feels good or not or what they should change about their approach.

What Are The Uses For Butt Plugs?

G-spot stimulation

This one may come as a shock to some – I know I was surprised when I learned about this – but playing inside your butt can actually stimulate your G-spot. How cool is that?

You’re probably scratching your head a bit at this point – isn’t…isn’t the G-spot inside your other orifice? How are you gonna reach that? Yes, yes it is, only it’s not nearly as far away from your ass as you think it is. Isn’t your body wild? In fact, if you put your fingers up your cooch right now and press against the back wall of your vagina while you put your other hand up your ass and push, you should be able to feel your fingers touching. Yes, I’ve tried it and it was neat, and kinda weird.

Anyway, because everything is so close together, it’s easy to see how masturbating through your anus can stimulate your G-spot. There are even special curved butt plugs that are meant for exactly that purpose, so if you’re shopping around, you might want to give one a try. 

Anal sex training

And speaking of butt secks, butt plugs can be a wonderful precursor to that. As you already know by now, you can’t just jump into anal, because there’s a learning curve, and a training period involved. That training and prep can be achieved with your fingers, but you can also enlist the help of toys.

Butt plugs are ideal for this purpose, especially the sets with different sizes that are especially designed to make anal play more comfortable. You can start out with the smallest one and then slowly and pleasurably graduate to the next sizes, up until you are able to comfortably take the largest size, and maybe even a dildo.

That way, you’ve not only taken your time getting used to the way it feels, but you’ve also…uh, made room for something bigger and better. Plus, you’ll be more comfortable with the idea of anal once you’ve spent so much time engaging in anal masturbation. Just don’t strain yourself, ok? There’s plenty of time, and your butt isn’t going anywhere.

Prostate stimulation

But butt plugs and anal play, in general, aren’t just for ladies. Gentlemen can enjoy it just the same, and taking something up the butt doesn’t have to be gay. I always want to tell dudes “Hey, you’ve got a prostate for a reason”. I mean, they say it’s the male G-spot apparently, why would you wanna miss out on that, right? We talked a bit about that in my male sex toys article.

If that’s something the gentleman in your life is interested in, but you’re not keen on…reaching into his ass, then a butt plug can be a nice way to play together, once he’s gotten comfortable with his own ass and having fingers and foreign objects in there.

One thing I always think about when it comes to stuff like this is that anal play is one of the few things (if not the only thing) that a male and female partner can both experience in the same way. Sure, it won’t be the exact same sensation, but it’s still a shared experience and can be very special. The butthole is the one thing that brings us all together on Earth.