If you think you are in the process of learning deep throat and improving oral sex skills, this article may be for you. Surprise your man with new skills and enter the deep throat world.

What is it Deep throat?

A deep throat is an oral sex position where you take blowjobs into a whole new level. This is because you will let the penis enter your mouth then down your throat and then start sucking back and forth to mimic the act of penetration using your throat. Yes, that’s why they call it throat-fuck too. You might think that this is a hardcore oral sex position, but to be honest, it’s a skill to be obtained. When we say it’s a skill, it is because people who know how to do this properly learned how to deep throat through time and practice.

Oral sex is all fun and games until you have to open your mouth and let the penis go all the way down your throat. Some people don’t like it because they are not comfortable gagging when performing oral sex. But if you’re more on the adventurous side, we bet that giving blow jobs won’t be complete without deep throating your partner. We can already hear you whisper “The sloppier, the better” because really it is!

What’s the difference between deep throat and blowjob?

Deepthroat and oral sex are mostly the same thing. Both are oral sex for men to achieve orgasm. This behavior is often used as a foreplay because it stimulates or replicates the feeling of vaginal or anal penetration.

The only thing that makes them different from each other is that the mouthpiece is made by extending the penis into the cavity and sucking it in and out smoothly, while the deep throat slides the penis down into the mouth to the throat. In other words, deep throat is another technique you can add to increase the fun of oral sex.

Why some people enjoy it?

If you know people who love doing deep throat, this is because most probably they are into a kink called breathplay or choking. This is a fetish where they feel intense pleasure by putting obstruction in their airway without passing out. It may sound a little bit intense, but if it is done right, it can give powerful pleasure for both the giver and the receiver. The art of breathplay, choking, or deep throating is not to make the receiver (the one to get deep throated) to pass out. It is getting that buzz or rush of blood flow in their head that they feel after clearing out the obstruction in their airway.

If you still don’t get it, try putting your fingers around your neck. Try squeezing your neck with your fingers and not put the pressure on your palms. You just want to feel that you can’t breathe and not feel that your throat is being crushed by force. After holding it for a few seconds, release your fingers and try to feel the buzz in your head.

Now if you’re someone who wants to know how to deep throat, then you’re definitely on the right article. Here are some tips on how to please and finish off your man with a mind-blowing oral sex trick.

Basic tips and tricks how to deep throat

Make sure everything is clean

If you are still practicing using a dildo or cucumber deep throat, no matter which exercise you choose, make sure to clean them first. You will put it in your mouth and it will reach your throat. It's important to keep your sanitation top priority, as our tonsils are very sensitive and easily infected.

Practice makes perfect

During your first oral sex, you may feel nauseous every time the tip of your penis touches your throat. That's because your brain signals you that you may be selling something harmful to you. Well, how can you say it's harmful when it's all under your control. Happily and groaning and complaining names are more a sign of good things than bad ones, right? However, if you do have a lot of trouble with gag reflections, you may need to practice it.

To suppress gag reflexes, try practicing with a sucker dildo. Place the dildo on your tongue and push it in until you feel the gag is working. Repeat this until you no longer feel suffocated. Once your throat is used to irritation, you can start pushing it back further.

It doesn't matter if you continue to vomit. If you have reached the limit, remove the dildo.

Try to control your gag reflex

A common technique for controlling gag reflexes is to apply pressure on the muscles between the thumb and index finger. As you apply more pressure, you will begin to feel that the gag reflex is diminished. If that doesn't work, my dentist taught me this technique, which is to hold the fist in the left hand with the thumb. This will disperse the discomfort in your mouth. In fact, this is supported by research, as this is a form of acupressure, basically a pressure point therapy that prevents pain or stress in the body.

You can also use your toothbrush to train vomiting reflexes! After brushing your teeth, you can start brushing your tongue and try to reach the end that intersects your throat. You can try to brush your tongue and then stretch it backwards little by little. If you feel rattling, move half an inch back and then move up again until you reach the farthest point of your tongue. Repeat this process until you no longer feel suffocated.

Try to practice 2-3 times a week and you will find that your vomiting reflex will get accustomed to throat down stimulation.

Don't forget to breathe

When you put something in your mouth, you will find that you automatically stop breathing. Try to inhale after putting the dildo back into your throat, then draw it out, and then try to inhale to practice your skills. Repeat this operation until memory improves and breathing is more comfortable.

Experiment in different positions, in which case he can tilt the penis and slide easily into your throat. You can usually lie on your back with your head on the edge of the bed. You can also tilt your head to align your mouth with your throat. You can then inhale before or during your penis slipping. Make sure your tongue sticks out because the gap will help you breathe.

If you want a simpler version, just kneel up. Have your man stand in front of you so that his penis is aligned with your mouth. This is a good position if your man is restricted to walking around with a full erection.

Open your mouth correctly

When opening your mouth, consider leaving enough space for your penis to reach your throat. You can try to put 2 or 3 fingers in your mouth. This will give you an idea and open your mouth. Unlike oral sex, you must close your mouth and suck, and you must keep your mouth open while deep throat. This is to help you absorb the penis easily and make you breathe every time your penis slides out. Once you know the range and speed at which it can be used, this trick will be much easier for you.

Drop your chin

Remember to stop when your jaw is also tight. Rest your jaw as this will make you more relaxed and avoid accidentally biting your penis. If you feel the gag reflexes are too active and uncontrollable, it is recommended that you take a break while holding the tip or hold the root of the penis. If you want to rest, do so, then try deep throat again when you are ready.

Hydrate and lubricate

The best way to ensure that you won’t hurt your throat is to make sure it isn’t dry. Usually, when you give blowjobs, you will notice that your mouth keeps on producing saliva. The good thing is that your saliva is a good lubricant. It can make your blowjobs sloppy and more enjoyable.

This is now the highlight of this article. After a few sucking and slight thrusting, your man might want to immediately push his penis down. This is actually dangerous because he might put too much friction and pressure to the muscles of your throat. Make a quick reminder that he should still let you take control. You can give him physical signs such as tapping his legs or pinching him slighty as your safeword or signal that it’s too much for you and you want him to stop. Since you can’t really talk while doing this. You should stand your ground and show him the pace you are comfortable with. Once you are ready, carefully slide or push his penis down your throat. You can do this by lowering your head down until you feel that his penis passes your tonsil. At this point you will feel like you want to gag, but breathe in and then push a little bit further and let the penis go down.

You want to try to tighten the muscles of your throat and try to give that sensation of locking the penis and mimic a penetration using your mouth and throat.

Finish him off

If you’re not one to produce enough saliva, then I suggest you drink water first. This will prevent you from having a dry mouth and you can easily produce spit for lubrication. Deliberately spit saliva to wet the whole penis and your mouth.

8 Ease your way in with a blowjob

Your heart may be pounding at this point, but just relax and have your partner stand in front of you. Kneel between his legs, and hold the base of his penis. Tease him by looking at him straight in the eye and put small kisses on the tip. Go slowly by licking the shaft kittenishly. You may want to put your hands around his legs or bum for support, and then without breaking eye contact, put his penis inside your mouth.

Perform a deep throat

Okay, so you’ve mastered our first 9 tips and techniques, now we finally put our last card on the table– finish off your man. During oral sex, communicate with him how he wants it done. He may want you to put more attention on the tip or he may want you to suck more on the shaft. Even if it is not asked, don’t forget that those balls need some loving too!

While deep throating you man, you will notice when he’s near climax. You might hear that his breathing is heavier, his pace is starting to get faster, or the most give away– he’s holding your head as he thrust down your throat. If you feel he’s close, try doing tip number 2. Open your mouth widely again to give you more space to breathe, this will also tighten slightly your throat and give a better sensation to your man and push him to the edge.